Good prepration and timely actions will be the key to success.

1. First and formost, prepare a timeline about your own life and actions ,

2. Using android phones? Use google sheet or excel sheet to start preparing a summary of your location and presence with activities etc on various dates,

3. Why excel? Or google sheets ?

So that the random dates and information can be sorted in ascending or decending order.

4. We are humans,we do forget about which dates what activites we did and what was our location ? But internet does not.

5. Check your emails, find details like train tickets, air tickets, bus tickets etc which you may have booked online.

6. Check your emails for received emails like bank transaction alerts , atm withdrawal etc, that can help you to prove your location at different place then that claimed in the complaint against you.

7. Booking and attendence of courses, movies etc all can be tracked via emails.

8. Other details you find useful like hotel bookings etc.

Using the information already present in your own email account, you can recheck if the complaint against you has any false statement regarding your presence, if the date and time of incidents as discribed in the complaint clashes with any date where you can prove your presence to be at a differrnct location it can become a open and shut case .

You may find evidences of your innocence that you were not present at the location of incident and cannot be present at two places at same time.

9. Start reading the FIR, Or complaint (as may be the case ) over and over again, start writing point to point answers and find errors in the complaint, as mostly it has been found that the claims and alligations are all fiction and same kind of format is used as copy paste material by lawyers and for filing FIR by complainant, which is bound to have many errors, note them down.

10. If you have enough evidences that the case against you is a false case and you have proves of your innocence make good use of section 482 and file your case for quashing of FIR IN THE HIGH COURT or Apply for Anticipatory Bail , as advised by your lawyer.

11. Start collecting all the evidences of your innocence and in case of documents like any orders , judgements etc , always keep certified copies available with you,

12. You can also use google maps , timeline feature to note down and recall you location and position on various dates from google history and time line feature.

13. Never skip any notices and hearings.

14. Start collecting judgements relevant to your cases a great database is provided by MyNation foundations website free of cost.

15. Needless to say that good prepration with sound mind will lead to victory. Hence do your homework well, and be calm.

16. Let the knife and other parties involved give false statements in court under oath and of you can prove them to be false, file CRPC340 PERJURY application against them.

Realizing that I have been living with a complete stranger for many years, was a shocker and something i was never prepared for!

Just like a spider weaving its web ,my whole life and actions use to revolve around this very individual(my knife) and my son, (who has recently turned 7 years of age ), all my efforts, and actions were just concentric to provide the knife and my son, everything they may need.

Revolving in epleptical orbits around the two focal points , my son and my wife, was all i have been doing ever since i got married in 2010 and when my son was born in year 2012, i felt the need to slow down a bit and start taking care of myself as i need myself to be present for him through out the life span lord has given.

The SUPERMAN was parted with the SUPER and only MAN was left. The bike speed which use to be 90kmpl dropped to 30kmpl automatically.

Habits of risk taking were left far behind.

For me happiness was to see them enjoy the fruits of my labour and earnings which i use to make after each contract out at sea onboard ships.

I felt like my labour and efforts were a success, not knowing that i have actually invited the devil in my life and now he has made himself comfortable and not ready to leave.

For someone who has Greed as a vertue will never get satisfied, no matter how much they have, it doesnot matter how much you provide them,

the demands never stops,

My knife since our marriage in 2010,

has been demanding and pushing me in everyway possible, that

i should get seperated from my family,

ask for my share and inheritance

and use same to get settled at Jaipur, her present hometown.

Whereas, for me it was a NO-GO route,

and

even after providing her with all the best that i could

her demand kept going only as she desperately needed her ill-intention to be success ,

She wanted to get me seperated from the family,

so that she can alone enjoy the salary I earned alone.

Blinded by the love i had for her, i never saw the devil in her eyes, I never could make out her real face, and never realized that she was a cruel&cunning person performing a Con, like a CON ARTIST she become the part of my family

Her plan and cunning actions over the years were so nicely planned and masterminded by her Parents that i never knew what kind of deep problem i was in till the time I received the notices of 41A.

These days when i recall them ,i realise that i have been living a lie for over 7 years, nothing she said, or did, was truth, or from her heart,

Everything was a part of a larger plan which was getting executed as planned by the master mind her mom and dad .

It was really hard for me to see the truth as the blaze of truth was blinding my eyes and i could hardly keep them open, but now i have accepted the truth, and with arms wide open moving towards acceptance of same.

The activity to make a scene out of every small argument a husband wife has, then damage my image among my own family members, telling me that she needs to visit her parents place for some important stuff, but never return back on planned date rather overstay for periods of month or so.

Getting excessively angry at every small mistake and use is as a leverage to dominate, and get her illegal and irrational demands met were becoming a normal routine in my life.

Soon i realized that actually she has got me in chains and made a puppit out of me, i have been dancing on her instructions and she had that mind control kind of act going on but only place she was not able to control my senses was when it comes to family.

So it was a normal routine for her to get angry or make some or the other excuse to go and stay at her parents place, then my job was to get pressurized by my own family, her parents and even my own friends to go and get things resolved to bringing her back , in peace offerings it started with the jwellery she wanted which was out of my budget, then a joint account to be opened where my salary should get deposited directly so that funds can be used with ease and to provide her social security in case i get stuck onboard or some mishap occurs onboard ship,

then the final blow,

she asked for exculsive control over my earnings and that she will decide what money i shall utilize and give in my family to my mom.

Though i use to give her a decent amount of pocket money about 40k INR seperately (which she never use to give me details about where she has been utilizing same), in addition to normal house hold expenses etc.

She had always had problem if i spent even a single rupee without her permission.

And if i felt like giving money to my mom as she is old and a senior citizen damn my bed room use to transform into a war zone.

I took me real strenght to move on, but i am actually living a better life then waking up to someone i dont want to see the face of every morning.

I am really glad that when it came to my limit i finally held my ground and said the magical word “NO” when i was being harassed and emotionally blackmailed , enough i had been a puppit, For the sake of keeping everyone happy, i lost my own identity…..!!!!

I may have been slapped back with full package of cases that women misuse for meeting the illogical, irrational, and illegal demands, but i am free from the clutches of a horrible person.

It was the best decision of my life as i am happy to get back my life.

Due to false cases that my beloved knife has put against me and my family members at Jaipur, Rajasthan, i got to see the real face of corruption that is prevailing in various government organizations including Rajasthan Police, specially Mahilla Thana West, Jaipur, if you are a female then you can actually avail services like

• Filing of false FIR, with intentions to harass your husband and in-laws family members ,and actually avail the servicesprovided by the Rajasthan Police to do so.
• Corrupt officers of Rajasthan police department also provide you surety that any evidences that the opposite party brings as a proof of innocence in the matter will not be taken on records rather you will be provided with copy of same so that you can use same for prepration of counters etc.
• Unlike any other state in India where if a women approaches the police department with a complaint against her husband and inlaws, under section 498A/ PWDV/DP act etc. , The Rajsthan police specially the officers and staff of Jaipur Police will readily without conducting any primary investigation on application whether the alligations are true or not proactively register FIR, and this service is actually helpful for the staff only as more accussed means more sorce of earning bribes
• The Police department helps the women and even drafts the complaint for her, depending on the bribe plans, which she has selected.
• It doesnot matter that alligations are vague and that the husband was not even present at the location about which the fictional story has been made to rope him in false alligations, the police will definately entertain the FIR complaint as they have taken money in form of bribes and they have to provide full service which they are paid to perform.
• Dowry items or Streedhan defination is same for the police department, they even include customary gifts in the marriage to be dowry items and use these items to invoke section 406 against innocent family members of the husband.
• Special service , if you say that your husband is an NRI , it means jackpot for these currupt police officers, they will even go out of the box to get him entangled with false case and alligation so that they can blackmail him, to extort money and bribes from him.

Sounds something you have faced too?? Do share your experience in comments section!

Respect and regards….